WHY YOUR RELATIONSHIPS ARE WEAK AND HAVE NO SUBSTANCE

By Kanishka Vijay

Everyone craves substance but no one wants to work for it.
Many older people say, your generation gives up way too easily. It is the reason why your relationships do not last.

But when is enough, enough?

The below are reasons why your relationships are shallow and end before they start:

1. External Validation: When your friends and family started telling you, Leave that guy, he is not a great guy. 
2. Struggling to Forgive: When you expect perfection in your partner when you are far from it and struggle to compensate for the things for your partner. 
3. Cutting Off: When you walk away from every relationship that inhibits one sign of a struggle. 
4. Can not Communicate: When you expect your partner to read your mind because if they love you, they should just know. 
5. Cannot Change his/her Mind: When you chase after someone who will not give you want or whose values are not aligned with yours.

Your ego is the number one destroyer in your relationship. When you hold back, the other person holds back and this is why your relationships lack substance.