The Difference Between True Love and Attachment
By: Team Ifairer | Posted: 29-09-2023
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Love is accept his or her flaws, attachment is blaming
Though
you know that your partner isn't perfect, you accept him or her
wholeheartedly if your love is true. If you are blaming him or her all
the time reminding how much you are really struggling to accept the
shortcomings of your partner then you may be just in an attachment phase
that might never reach the stage of true love.
Love is ego-reducing, attachment is ego-boosting
When in
love, you become less self-centered. Your relationship serves to reduce
your ego, fosters your growth, and encourages you to become less selfish
and more loving. Alternatively, relationships based on attachment are
typically dominated by the ego. This is why many people repeatedly fall
into a continuous stream of unsatisfying relationships, each of which
involves the same, recurrent problems. You find it difficult to look
within and resolve your issues.