How to fix common issues between FRIENDS!

PROBLEM 5

You can't stand your friend's boyfriend or spouse.

SOLUTION

It's her partner, not yours--and you don't have to like him. What attracts two people can be hard to quantify or understand. If you don't like her choice, try to carve out ways to spend time together with her, without him. You can say how you feel but don't try to talk her out of the way she feels. Of course, if you think her choice of partner is self-destructive, let her know that and try to be there for her.