How to find out if a girl is using you
By: Team Ifairer | Posted: 25-02-2019
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Being used is never nice. It could be you're being drawn into a relationship when it's neither appropriate nor healthy. Love and romance are beautiful feelings and they are the only emotions that make life worth living. But unfortunately, there are some men and women who use the very same feeling to exploit others. Here are some signs to know if you are being used.
She wants a lot of space
Every time she ignores you or pushes you away, you may find yourself falling more madly in love with her. On the other hand, she's probably not only playing you like a puppet, but having sex with other guys who probably don't treat her even half as nice as you do. Remember this - when a girl claims to really like you, but avoids you for stretches of time despite claiming to "never get tired of spending time with you" there's a good chance there's another guy in her life and that given the opportunity, Save yourself for a better woman.
Behaves like a friend
Does your new girlfriend behave like a friend now and then! She hugs you and cuddles you, and then pushes you away and tells you it's all happening too fast and she's not ready for it. Any girl who behaves like a girlfriend but prefers to stay friends is obviously using your love and affection to feel better about herself.
She uses flattery
Whenever she wants a favour from you, she talks sweet and gives you lots of attention. She uses flattery as a weapon. She uses love making as a weapon. If your girlfriend discusses money matters in bed that too, before a steamy session with you, you might need to think twice about the relationship.
She doesn't want to meet your friends
When you're dating someone in a normal relationship, they'll eventually want to meet your friends. If she shows no interest in meeting your friends, it means she really has no invested interest in who you are as a complete person.